Tuesday, 11 November 2014

Embrace Your Individuality

We are designed to be different, embrace your individuality

Everyday I hear statements like 'I'm not good enough' and 'I'm not smart enough,' and. I think to myself 'for whom?' All that matters in life is that you are the best version of yourself, and not trying to aspire to be somebody else. Constantly aspiring to be somebody else can be very damaging, because on your quest to be somebody else you loose track of who you really are. We were all designed differently, with different looks, personalities and talents. We were never made to be the same.

Life is filled with diversity and rich in culture, and this has only happened because people have embraced their own individuality. To often I see people loosing their individuality because of their desire to follow the crowd and fit in. I've always held the view that you need to embrace your unique personality, as it is a gift and not a burden. YOU are an amazing and by trying o be someone else you loose a key part of your unique spirit. Learning to be happy with who you are a challenge, one I still work on every day, but it is an Important and healthy challenge. Learning to embrace who you truly are is difficult, but it will be so worth it in the end.

Every time that you think you're not good enough, make sure you ask your self who you're not good enough for. If the answer is for your friends and family then you need to know that you are good enough. They love you just the way you are, regardless of your flaws. True friends don't want to change you into somebody you're not, and neither will your family. If your answer is for the world then chances are you're trying to live up to the standards the media and advertisements place on us. They are never worth it, those standards may seem ideal but are not who you are.

So give it a try for a week, exist for YOU and not the world, be content in the fact that your family and friends love the real you.


Love Katie xoxo

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